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Friday, September 18, 2015

I Apologize

Many of my dear readers have been writing to ask how things are, and if everything is okay. Thank you SO MUCH for checking in on us!

Yes, things have been crazy....  family obligations have taken the forefront. It has been an roller-coaster for sure. I have not had a lot of computer time, and when I have, it has been a crazy turmoil of emotions to write about. I think I am in a slump.

Maybe writing about them makes them more real.  
Makes them keep me awake at night. 
Makes them scary. 


I am trying to focus on the positive....

First and foremost, our darling little grandtot number six is FINALLY gaining ground, maintaining her blood platelets and putting on more weight.  whew!!!!


You go, Whitney Wonder Wade!   
You grow and prosper and gain strength and keep up that smile! 
Just look at those dimples????


The toll that cancer has taken on my father is hard on the entire family.  We have been doing what we can, and helping him out with controlling and understanding his health issues, household tasks, errands and bookwork. Helping him with his denial.  Helping him trust the doctors and nurses.  I am so glad that my siblings are pitching in and helping with him too.  The telephone lines are burning up back and forth as he calls to complain about every little thing, but given the fact that he is facing such a terrible disease, we can let him ramble.

Sadly, another dear family member is also facing a serious health crisis, and it's tugging at my heart and making me even more sad about this terrible disease.  We will see how things progress with the next doc appt. and go from there.  It gets to where I hate to even answer the phone.  I can't take any more bad news.


On top of all the sadness, we do have three HAPPY events going on in our month of September!  We have THREE WEDDING CELEBRATIONS!   I will write a blog post about each one in the next few days, so each wedding gets it's own page.

On Monday, I was able to spend a wonderful morning with grandtots Allegra and Mason.  After bringing Allegra to school, little Mason and I had a day to ourselves!  It was nice to have some one-on-one with the little 3 year old guy.  I kept him busy and his naptime in the car was well-needed as I brought him home again.




This week, Steve and I had the chance to escape out to High Cliff State Park for four days.... our friends Herb and Karen were up from Milwaukee and we had made reservations with them months ago to spend some time at the park together.  It was a nicely timed escape, and the weather was going to be gorgeous!

The camp hosts for the month of September had left the park to attend a Volunteer Jamboree sponsored by the Wisconsin State Parks....  we were supposed to go too, but instead decided to stay at High Cliff and take over the hosting duties while they were gone.  That way we could also spend time with our friends and get in some host time to help the park too.   We moved the host sign to our already reserved campsite and took over from there!




I drove out the motorhome to the campground and we got all settled onto our campsite, but we didn't really need to put out the awning.  The shady campsites at High Cliff State Park are so nice this time of year, an awning really isn't so necessary.  There was a strong breeze all four days which kept us cool, even while the temps were up in the 80's each afternoon.  Imagine that for weather in September in Wisconsin!  Geee!!!



Our friends Karen and Herb have the same brand of vintage Safari motorhome as we do, 
but theirs is a year newer and a couple feet longer.  
I really like their mural on the back of the American Eagle and flag... 
(ours has two white tigers that are "meh" to me....) 



The dogs really enjoyed being at the park again.  Long walks and watching the squirrels gathering the hickory nuts and acorns are a bonus!  Each time I took a different route around the park, so they could explore and sniff and enjoy their little "vacation" too.


We shared cooking meals and dessert and treats....  
and each evening ended with a nice campfire!
( we really needed this.... )


We proudly gave Herb and Karen the "Grand Tour" around the park...  and managed to catch a lovely sunset while exploring the pavilion, tower and Steve's maintenance shop.


 It was breathtaking.. pics didn't do it justice.  
Quick as a wink, it was gone....  

When Steve wasn't working, the guys were problem solving and figuring out stuff for repairs on our motorhomes.  Being almost 20 years old, there is ALWAYS something that needs to be done...  Karen and I shared projects, tips, and space-saving ideas.  Karen is also a fibery-person and loves to knit, spin and weave too.  We found a lot of cool things to explore and figure out together.  

Thursday came around way too fast, and it was time to load up and head out. Herb and Karen loaded up their car on their dolly and headed from here up to Peninsula State Park in Door County... There they go!  Thank you, for your much-needed and well-timed visit! 


We dumped our holding tanks, and got the rig ready to roll the short 13 miles back to our house.  Big journey, eh?   I decided that Steve should drive the rig home, because I was feeling a bit of a funny vibration or shudder on the way to the park on Monday when I was driving the motorhome.  He drove it back (but on a different road) and he decided all was fine, and it was just the road surface that I was on.  Wonderful! 

Now it's back home to reality. Home to medical calls, hospice reports, caseworker calls and worry, stress and emotions.  


....and home a big bowl of garden fresh tomatoes to get canned up.  
Sometimes we have to smile at the little things......




22 comments:

  1. I'm sorry so many stresses all arrived at the same time. Glad you got to have that break in the middle of it. Hang in there and know we readers will be here when you get back again.

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    1. Thanks so much Linda.... I will try to post more. Maybe writing about things will help keep my head on straight???

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  2. Being almost 20 years old, there is ALWAYS something that needs to be done.

    Yeah, we hear you on that! Our motorhome had his 20th birthday this year, and I've spent a lot of time keeping up on the necessary repairs. Oh well...I enjoy doing that kind of work anyhow...for the most part. :-)

    www.travelwithkevinandruth.com

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    1. Yup. us too. Our rig was built in Nov 95 although it's called a 96. Today Steve patched a cracked AC shroud, corroded wires on the air horn, repaired some hanging insulation in the engine compartment and next up will be evacuating and restoring the freon in the dash air after he fixes a belt and valve. Always something!

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  3. Nice to see a post from you again Karen. Life is certainly full of challenges sometimes but know that you are never alone. Looked like a nice time spent in the rig under the trees. Better days ahead for sure.

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    1. Thanks Al... I am way behind in my blogs! Yes, the life challenges take over from time to time. Thanks for being there. Those shady trees are nice, but that desert terrain calls my name too!

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  4. In the fairy tales they always end with "Ever After". Unfortunately in real life we don't have that option. We all have an expiry date it's just we don't know what the date is. All we can do is live life as best we can being kind to others and hoping to make a difference in their lives. We can only hope that the Love we give to someone in need will be passed on to us when we need it most.

    It's about time.

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    1. You really hit it on the head.... and I think I am going to copy and paste this to my wallpaper on my laptop. thanks!

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  5. I'm so glad you guys were able to get away for a time. Stress will take you down, too, if you don't get some relief. It sounds like a really hard time for your family. It's wonderful that your darling baby granddaughter is doing better. She's just precious. That photo of the tomatoes is beautiful, it looks like something a still life artist would want to copy. There's nothing like fresh, home grown tomatoes. Totally different taste than store bought. Best wishes to your dad. :)

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    1. Thanks Barb... we will just hang in there and keep pluggin away. l love that old song about Home Grown Tomatoes. Opening up a jar of them in the middle of the winter, I take a deep deep sniff... then I dip in a spoon and eat a mouthful before dumping them in chili or spag sauce. Yummmmm

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  6. Hey, glad you're back! It's great that you got to go camping & relax for a few days and that little Whitney is doing so well. With all the medical issues & stress lately it's good you have some weddings to look forward to. You deserve some fun & laughs. Your tomatoes look great. Mine didn't do so well. Big hail in early August about did them in...and then the blight. Friends gave me some so I got to can quite a few & make veggie juice. In the end mind produced more than I expected and by then I was all tomatoed out and gave the last of them to a friend who wasn't well enough this summer to raise any.

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    1. See? What goes around, comes around! So nice that you were able to pass on yours! I tell my two elderly lady neighbors to come and help themselves to maters from my plants, I do 16 of them each spring. It's nice to share.

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  7. (((Karen & family))) Sending you huge hugs and positive healing thoughts for all that need them. I hope treats you and your family kinder and the stress eases.

    Your granddaughter is beautiful and an obvious joy to you all.

    Hope your dad is doing ok. He is so blessed to have his family looking after him so well.

    I loved the park photos. So envious of your lovely motorhome.

    Well you take care. Sue, Polly & Honey

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    1. HI Sue... yes it's great to see the life of the new ones coming up in the family... and the circle of life has the old ones passing along. sigh. Glad we had a chance to get away for a few days. It was well worth it!

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  8. Life has a way of taking over and running our lives for us. Take care of yourself and know that we all thinking of you. So glad that Whitney is doing so well.

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    1. Yup, it's hard to maintain control of things when it's all spinning out of control. I am hoping to keep writing the blog to keep my head on straight and help sort out my thoughts as this all unfolds. thanks for being there for me!

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  9. Sometimes it is those small pleasures that keep us going.

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    1. I find those tiny little smiles from the baby to be SOOO uplifting. You are right.

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  10. Sometimes it is those small pleasures that keep us going.

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  11. Life seems to be a whole lot of heartache and sadness sometimes. But it does make the good times even more special Hugs to you and Steveio.

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    1. Thanks Jeff.. that means a lot! We are going to try to focus on the wee ones and do what we can to help the old ones.

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  12. So sorry that your dad is facing a battle with cancer. My Dad died the last day of August. Watching him struggle to remain alive is one of the hardest things I have ever done. He slipped away quietly while I was stuck in traffic in Atlanta, just two hours away. He had told his nurse that he was waiting for me and I wish I had driven faster. Treasure every moment with your dad.

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