Thursday, December 6, 2012

Sadness in our family

As we get nearer to the holidays, a heavy sadness is settling in.   My wonderful mother-in-law is slipping downward in her strong battle against cancer.  We can't do anything to stop it's progress, and we feel so helpless.  She is the most wonderful mother-in-law a girl could ever ask for.

Even in her weakened state, she was sure to get a present wrapped up for our granddaughter Allegra for her three year old birthday last weekend.  To be so worried about her little great granddaughter at a time like this is just a testimony to her caring nature and kindness.

We had a wonderful time at the party, and got in a lot of hugs and kisses with the grandtots.  I will let the photos speak for themselves:
























Our home purchase is going along as planned... all is done and ready for closing.  One of the sellers is out of the country till after Christmas, so we will not be closing on the purchase until then.  In the meantime, we are trying to spend time with Steve's folks, and finishing up some more on my cabinets.  I will post more pictures in the next blog.





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20 comments:

  1. NanThursday, December 6, 2012 at 6:27:00 PM CST

    We will be praying for you and your entire family.

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  2. davidThursday, December 6, 2012 at 6:36:00 PM CST

    Regardless of circumstances, treat every moment the same--cherish them! I lost my parents and sister 18 mos apart to cancer.

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  3. SallyBThursday, December 6, 2012 at 6:50:00 PM CST


    Thinking of all of you especially you and Steve, Karen ...... It is so difficult dealing with cancer as well as the difficult times your Mother and Mother-in -law is having to deal with on this journey ..... Prayers and more prayers for all of you especially the lovely Matriarch of the family ..... The Good Lord will be with all of you and bring you strength....

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  4. MerikayThursday, December 6, 2012 at 6:56:00 PM CST

    So sorry to read this sad news. Knowing what is coming and feeling helpless is so hard. But the loss of a parent, or inlaw parent is always hard.
    I'm sure everyone will give her great love and support in the days to come.

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  5. Jim and SandieThursday, December 6, 2012 at 7:02:00 PM CST

    Prayers for you and especially for your Mother-in-law. It's not easy but knowing that she might be with her Father for Christmas is a joyous time.

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  6. harrietThursday, December 6, 2012 at 7:28:00 PM CST

    The pictures of all the grandchildren are wonderful. Our grandchildren are the soul of the family. In times like these are we watch our parents and elders pass, its the joy of our children and grandchildren that give us strength. I pray for God's peace and mercy.

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  7. Travels with EmmaThursday, December 6, 2012 at 7:29:00 PM CST

    Sending most positive thoughts to you and your entire family during this trying time.

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  8. JeffThursday, December 6, 2012 at 7:36:00 PM CST

    Karen and Steve I lost both of my parents at a young age so I somewhat understand your pain. Cherish the good times and the memories.

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  9. Janna and MikeThursday, December 6, 2012 at 7:53:00 PM CST

    You guys are in our hearts and prayers.

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  10. Tumbleweed DeeThursday, December 6, 2012 at 8:20:00 PM CST

    We're thinking of you and in our prayers for the family.

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  11. UnknownThursday, December 6, 2012 at 8:55:00 PM CST

    Blessings and peace to you and your wonderful family.

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  12. UnknownThursday, December 6, 2012 at 8:56:00 PM CST

    Blessings to you and your entire family. May your mother-in-law have a peaceful journey home.

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  13. GypsyThursday, December 6, 2012 at 11:32:00 PM CST

    Your blog and photos are a testament to the Circle of Life. We all grow old and pass on, but there is hope in the young ones who follow. I am thinking of you and Steve, and his mom and family.

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  14. Iona HoeppnerFriday, December 7, 2012 at 1:10:00 AM CST

    May blessing and shalom (peace and more peace) attend you and your sweet family. We are remembering you all in our prayers.

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  15. Lou and KathyFriday, December 7, 2012 at 2:17:00 AM CST

    Karen, you have a lovely family. They all keep getting cuter, too. Praying for a peaceful and painless journey home for Steve's mother. She is surrounded by love here and she will be immersed in the Father's love on the other side. Hugs, Kathy

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  16. Karen and AlFriday, December 7, 2012 at 7:20:00 AM CST

    Sorry to hear your Mother in law isn't doing well. Prayers for her and the family.

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  17. Sue MaloneFriday, December 7, 2012 at 9:38:00 PM CST

    That first photo of Allegra is absolutely priceless!. So sorry about your mother in law. My daughter just lost her mom in law this week and it is devastating, even though she had a wonderful life and lived to be 90 years old. My thoughts are with you.

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  18. VickiSaturday, December 8, 2012 at 9:32:00 AM CST

    Awwwww...what a bunch of cuties...just adorable!
    So sorry to hear about your M-I-L...it's always hard dealing with a lose and even harder at the holidays. Will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

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  19. butterbean carpenterSaturday, December 8, 2012 at 5:36:00 PM CST

    Howdy Karen & Steve,

    So sorry, for your losing your mother Steve, now we know why you grabbed Karen; they're twins... While m-i-ls are a wife's measuring stick it sounds like Karen's was a perfect fit..
    We'll be praying for everyone's comfort and hoping for the 'best' for everyone!
    Give m-i-l a big hug from us in Texas and tell her we'll 'see' her later....

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  20. KerriSunday, December 9, 2012 at 7:55:00 PM CST

    Sending prayers for your entire family during this difficult time.

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